Stop Spinning, Start Winning Every Exchange
Your ex sends essay-length attacks, and you feel compelled to defend yourself against every accusation. You're bleeding energy responding to their nonsense while they sit back and watch you spin. Meanwhile, you're not getting your kids what they need and you look like part of the problem.
This training transforms you from a reactive responder into a strategic communicator who gets results without drama.
You'll master the 5 deadly communication landmines:
- Stop engaging with everything - Only child logistics require your response, period
- Ditch the permission-seeking - Use statements and invitations, not begging for buy-in
- Set email traps - Win-win requests that either get you what you want OR gift you evidence
- Resign as emotional support person - Stop bubble-wrapping your kids and teach them self-advocacy
- Quit walking on eggshells - Treat your ex like the adult they are, tantrums and all
The result: You'll stop getting pulled into your ex's drama and start getting results. While they're writing long, crazy emails, you'll look calm and reasonable. Plus, you'll actually get your kids what they need.